“As for the one who is weak in faith, welcome him, but not to quarrel over opinions.” – Romans 14:1
Christians come in all different ages and stages. They come from many different backgrounds. Some have been discipled well. Many haven’t been discipled at all. Some have have been taught well. Some have barely been taught. Some have studied the Bible diligently. Some have never even known they should study the Bible (or never had a Bible). Many Christians believe a few odd and unusual things. Many Christians do a few odd and unusual things. Those differences doesn’t necessarily make them an enemy. Most of the time, they are and should be welcomed and loved like a brother or sister.
If a person is truly a believer in Jesus, the eternal and risen Son of God, welcome them into a relationship. Discuss the things of God. Learn where they are in their walk with Jesus. Are they a spiritual infant, child, youth, or adult? Is their faith solid or shaky? Learn these things to love them, and either teach or learn from them. Don’t learn these things to humiliate them, torment them, argue with them, or break down their faith!
If a brother or sister has some odd and incorrect notions, that seldom requires you to break fellowship with them or condemn them as a heretic. Not all differences are equal. Not all differences are evil. Most should permit love and fellowship to continue. Of course, if they’re wrong about the nature of our Triune God, the person and work of Jesus the Son, the Holy Spirit, or salvation by grace through faith in Jesus then they need correction. Those who refuse correction in these areas aren’t truly Christian. These are critical doctrines about which we must never compromise and we should teach those who are willing to learn.
Odd habits, traditions, and beliefs around days, foods, religious observances, or lesser doctrines are simply part of the diverse fabric of Christ’s bride. Seek to make peace with fellow believers, especially those who are still wobbly in their faith. Appreciate their differences and help them grow and mature in Christ. Don’t tear them down for erroneous thinking, build them up in God’s Word. Don’t tear them down for being different, build them up in love. #FollowJesus