Harmony in Disagreement

“There are six things that the Lord hates,
seven that are an abomination to him:
…a false witness who breathes out lies,
and one who sows discord among brothers.”

– Proverbs 6:16,19

Though a list of seven things is long, the emphasis is on that final line – it’s an abomination to God to sow discord among brothers. An abomination! Whether in an earthly family or God’s family (which is the church), He despises people who stir up trouble and divides people. Whether it’s by gossip, petty insults, or playing one side against another, God hates it all! There’s a reason Jesus declared God’s favor and blessing upon peacemakers.

Harmony within families and within the church is prized by God. Jesus prayed for unity. The good news is that that doesn’t require uniformity. That doesn’t mean people can’t disagree over things, even important things. But Christians must disagree in a manner pleasing to God. We must discipline ourselves to disagree in a way that still affirms our love and relationship with one another. More spiritually mature Christians must not only practice this but teach others to do the same.

Jesus said that the peacemakers will inherit the earth. Guess what… Christians are going to inherit the earth. That means we’re all supposed to be peacemakers! Are you a peacemaker? Not just getting along with others but bringing people together when they’re in conflict? Do you value unity, harmony, and love above being seen by others as right and getting your way? Understand the proverbs and their emphasis on not saying or doing things that divide people or make fractured relationships worse. Then love your brothers and sisters – in life and in church. Hold tight to them and #FollowJesus