“And if anyone will not receive you or listen to your words, shake off the dust from your feet when you leave that house or town.” – Matthew 10:14
If you’re a follower of Jesus, then you’ve been given a life-saving mission: share your hope in Christ with others so they, too, would become followers of Jesus (Matthew 28:19-20). It’s the responsibility of every believer to be ready to explain why they have joy and hope, when those things seem to be in short supply in the world (1 Peter 3:15). However, not everyone you share with will enthusiastically listen and believe the truth about Jesus.
That’s OK. They aren’t rejecting you, they’re rejecting the invitation to enter God’s Kingdom. Maybe because it’s too unfamiliar. Maybe because of fear. Maybe because it doesn’t yet make sense to them. Maybe because of ongoing attachment to the sins Jesus would forgive. Maybe because they haven’t yet hit rock bottom and cried out to the Lord. There are so many possible reasons for turning down Jesus. Pray they’ll accept the truth but expect that many won’t, at least not yet. That’s OK, it isn’t personal, so don’t take it personally.
What should you do when the words of life are turned out? Should you keep trying? Plan a different approach? Bring in a better evangelist? Perhaps, if that’s your sense of leading from the Lord. However, often you should accept that you simply should keep praying for the person but move on, at least for a while. Perhaps their salvation is something for a later time. Perhaps another follower of Jesus will experience the joy of seeing them raised to new spiritual life in Christ.
Love people. Share the Gospel with them. Be faithful to pray diligently for them. But recognize when it’s time to move on and focus on someone, or somewhere, else. Don’t give up. Don’t be discouraged. Just be faithful and #FollowJesus