“Iron sharpens iron,
and one man sharpens another.”
– Proverbs 27:17
This is a well-known proverb and most Christians will nod their head about its wisdom. But do you actually live it? Do you welcome and embrace the sharpening of others? We live in an age where most people are hyper-sensitive whenever anyone questions, critiques, or pushes back. We expect and are expected to simply affirm and celebrate whatever anyone says or does, no matter how short-sighted, foolish, selfish, or sinful. Christians can be among the most thin-skinned in this regard.
So, think carefully about these ancient words of wisdom. Do you truly believe them? Who is the iron in your life who is permitted to sharpen you? Who is permitted to ask you difficult and uncomfortable questions about your motives and way of thinking? Who can offer suggestions for improvement, critique you honestly, or call out your sin? What is your reaction when they do? Is it to lash out or to pause and reflect? Is it to thank them for their candor, attack them for it, or turn away from them altogether?
Who are you sharpening? Who are you close enough to and honest enough with that you’re investing in making them sharper, more obedient, and more faithful? It can be difficult to be the sharpener in our age of radical autonomy but pray about who God may be calling you to sharpen. #FollowJesus